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In-Between Day

The month of May in our world: spring in full swing – every day on the calendar filled -  a graduation here, a wedding there, birthdays and anniversaries everywhere – and of course, Mothers Day. Our May calendar is always a scrawled across, heavily notated, ink-covered mess. We added our own May Wedding (at Thorncrown Chapel, now just 5 miles up the road) and year ago we upended our lives and our world on another May day when we bought The Retreat at Sky Ridge  (then known as Fairwinds Mountain Cottages). There is no connection between the two events and that they fall in May only a week apart was pure serendipity – but there ya go – 2 more momentous occasions to squeeze into an already over-full May calendar.

Imagine my confusion (and surprise) when I looked at a cluttered, impossibly full May 2010 calendar and there was a blank day – nothing written, nothing to do – no card to buy or send – just an empty white space in a sea of numbers, exclamation points, colors and notes. I had to check and recheck several times and refer to prior back-up calendars before I could believe what I was seeing.

I’m not even going to say what day it is because I know as soon as I do someone will have a baby or decide to visit or have a party. I’m preserving it in all of its pristine, spotlessly blank – not so much as a doodle to mar it’s whiteness – glory.  One solitary lone day standing there alongside, but apart somehow from all the surrounding happy noise,  serious business, piled up to-do’s and stress. An “In Between Day”.

Now I am  looking forward to finding a few more “in-between days” – nice to think about when I flip the calendar over every month.  Don’t we all need the occasional “in-between day”. On my in-between day – on that open, in-between everything in my life day – I’m gonna stop, look around in every direction and be, in that moment, content with where I’ve been and hopeful about where I’m going. Sort of like recharging – only you have to unplug to do it.

What would happen if everyone had one day – just one “in-between day” every few months – to do the same? Well, world peace might break out — or not – but at least we would have slowed down for long enough to notice if it did..

I won’t ask if you find your own “in-between days” – I’ll just hope to see a white space in your calendar and then smile at the possibility you’re unplugging and checking out for day – an “in-between day”.

Unplug – There is Music Everywhere

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I walk outside every day to the sound of birds, frogs (in summer) and moving water. At my office I work with a waterfall and two creeks always singing at the edges of my consciousness, and can hear an eagle’s cry from high in the sky while sitting at my desk. I know when the goats are tangled, when the horse has wandered too far or a stranger wanders by because the Crows and Jays strike up a cacophony of alarm. I can hear the softest rain on the tin roof and a hummingbird showdown at the feeder out front. At night, owls on the hunt call to each other, raccoons chatter incessantly and throaty bullfrogs join a chorus of peepers and tree frogs as the whippoorwill’s age-old refrain echos across the valley and back. It’s a 24 hour concert both subtle and soothing – intriguing and incredibly complex. Layer upon layer of sounds large and small that call to something deep inside that I can’t name and don’t really understand — but I know my mind and body respond by pushing me outside to join in,  to see, to hear, to feel, to touch – to find my own rhythm and natural place in the song.

People sometimes try to relax while plugged into a myriad of electronics that shut out all else and fill their heads with something so overwhelming that it literally deafens them to the world —  a world alive with sound unique to just that moment in that place  — and then wonder why sleep and serenity continue to elude them.  The iPod is a marvelous (and miraculous) invention – who dreamed we’d one day carry around our entire music library on something the size of a deck of cards? And I continue to be amazed at the wonders inside my iPhone. I love both of them, but I love most turning them off and plugging instead into nature and life and the moment that is before me.

How long will it be before people live their entire lives plugged into an artificial world?  Already the constantly connected appear everywhere, headphones in, earpieces connected, tiny microphones hanging like some bizarre jewel in front of their faces, as they talk to the air and stare intently into their hand at a 2″ dose of instant gratification. How long before they feel they cannot survive, might suffocate as if deprived of oxygen, without that wire tether connected and input being shot straight into their brains 24 hours a day? Already some turn away from actual human interaction – preferring instead instant, numbing noise, a miniature faux world under their thumb and disembodied voices inserted right inside their head.

There is music everywhere, here, it’s insistent, constant and beautiful… hard to believe anyone could step outside and then choose to shroud birdsong and a fawn’s hesitant footsteps in artifice from a machine, no matter how insistent. And when someone does stop, unplug, walk outside or sit on the wide porchswing at their cabin in solitude and take in the native symphony – listen, connect, sleep peacefully immersed in the natural music around them  -  you can see the change – you can sense them relaxing and reconnecting with a part of themselves they’ve been drowning out for far too long. It’s part of the magic of The Retreat, and it’s as real and close as the OFF button in their hand.

Stop, Unplug – and Listen, there is music everywhere.