The month of May in our world: spring in full swing – every day on the calendar filled - a graduation here, a wedding there, birthdays and anniversaries everywhere – and of course, Mothers Day. Our May calendar is always a scrawled across, heavily notated, ink-covered mess. We added our own May Wedding (at Thorncrown Chapel, now just 5 miles up the road) and year ago we upended our lives and our world on another May day when we bought The Retreat at Sky Ridge (then known as Fairwinds Mountain Cottages). There is no connection between the two events and that they fall in May only a week apart was pure serendipity – but there ya go – 2 more momentous occasions to squeeze into an already over-full May calendar.
Imagine my confusion (and surprise) when I looked at a cluttered, impossibly full May 2010 calendar and there was a blank day – nothing written, nothing to do – no card to buy or send – just an empty white space in a sea of numbers, exclamation points, colors and notes. I had to check and recheck several times and refer to prior back-up calendars before I could believe what I was seeing.
I’m not even going to say what day it is because I know as soon as I do someone will have a baby or decide to visit or have a party. I’m preserving it in all of its pristine, spotlessly blank – not so much as a doodle to mar it’s whiteness – glory. One solitary lone day standing there alongside, but apart somehow from all the surrounding happy noise, serious business, piled up to-do’s and stress. An “In Between Day”.
Now I am looking forward to finding a few more “in-between days” – nice to think about when I flip the calendar over every month. Don’t we all need the occasional “in-between day”. On my in-between day – on that open, in-between everything in my life day – I’m gonna stop, look around in every direction and be, in that moment, content with where I’ve been and hopeful about where I’m going. Sort of like recharging – only you have to unplug to do it.
What would happen if everyone had one day – just one “in-between day” every few months – to do the same? Well, world peace might break out — or not – but at least we would have slowed down for long enough to notice if it did..
I won’t ask if you find your own “in-between days” – I’ll just hope to see a white space in your calendar and then smile at the possibility you’re unplugging and checking out for day – an “in-between day”.



