She was amazing – tough, smart, independent, funny and most of all, she was my Mom. At age 87, 3 days after my 54th birthday, she chose to leave this world for a new adventure – one just on the other side of tomorrow. There’s an empty space where she was when she was here, but a very full space in me, where she will always be.
She did it for 57 years, but now it’s up to us to make sure my Dad doesn’t wear overalls to dinner or mix stripes and plaids. You can almost hear her fussing from somewhere not too far away, she’s certainly not gonna let a little thing like dying keep her from telling him what to do or from speaking her mind in general. I’ll never look in the mirror without hearing her say “at least put on some lipstick”.
It’s not been an easy year – this brand new 2012. This year hurts – and this pain isn’t something I can fix by sheer force of will – although, like her, I will try anyway. Do you ever get over missing the heartbeat that was your 1st sound, your 1st comfort, your 1st lullaby?  I know she wouldn’t want me to lose the laughter and the sharp wit she bequeathed me so I won’t – they’re just a little muted for now.
This is a healing place, where I live. I am here with family, with happy guests and newlyweds, purring foot warmers and wagging tails – love and laughter all around me every day. If she has her way, my Mom will make damn sure 2012 is the most successful year ever at The Retreat just to make up for leaving just as it started. I’m sure she’ll get busy on that just as soon as she has cleaned everything (they were probably way behind on the dusting), gathered up every critter in sight and taken a drive – just to see what’s out there. Call when you get there!

Please join all of us here at The Retreat at Sky Ridge on Saturday May 5th 2012 from noon to 4 PM for a celebration of a life well lived.  Music, food and yes…. I’ll put on some lipstick Mom. 800-242-3128 for more info.